Actively guide and watch the changes.

Sometimes the contradiction between children is not a real contradiction. Sometimes a word, a disagreeing look, or a different opinion, the child will think it is a contradiction. At this time, parents should ask why and tell their children to be tolerant and not to associate with classmates just because of a trivial matter. In the child's dissatisfaction, he may have forgotten the previous unhappiness and soon play with his classmates.

Don’t be impatient or impatient, understand the truth.

If the conflict between a child and a classmate is a combination of fist and fist, it is full of violence. Parents should be cautious at this time.

After parents know it, they should listen patiently to figure out the cause of the matter. Guide the child to tell the truth truthfully. Don't get angry when you hear your child quarrel, or scold your child, just get intolerable immediately and go to school to find someone else's child to be angry. Both of these situations are undesirable.

As long as there are conflicts between children, they are more or less wrong. Therefore, we must treat contradictions dialectically. First find the reason from the child himself, and tell the child what to do when encountering such a thing. Encourage children to dare to face their own mistakes. It is not a serious problem, let the child try to solve it by himself.

Be magnanimous and communicate with teachers and parents in a timely manner.

In case of serious conflict, parents should actively contact the teacher and solve it through the school. You can't go directly to other people's children and stand up for your own children. This will intensify conflicts between children. After getting in touch with the school, you should actively communicate with the parents of children who have conflicts, treat each other sincerely, and strive for mutual understanding, so that conflicts can be resolved. After all, every parent hopes to intensify their children's conflicts and affect their learning ive civil engineering.

You must be prepared and prepared to suffer.

Like any other skills, communication can only be learned in practice, not on paper. Real communication encounters problems is inevitable, there are collisions, running-in, compromises, learning from them, and grasping the way of harmonious relations between people. Parents and children should be fully psychologically prepared for the various problems encountered in communication, and be open-minded to accept, enjoy and bear. There is a moment of gain and loss in communication. However, how can you know what is not good for you? If you don’t give up, how can you gain? Looking at the loss dialectically for a long time, the heart can relax and be grateful for the loss. The child can really let go of the burden, communicate boldly, and enjoy the communication process. The happiness and experience in the real world go beyond the cycle of fear of loss.

Follow the principles of getting along with classmates.

Parents need to guide their children patiently, abide by the principles of respect, trust, sincerity, and kindness. Respecting students means respecting themselves; trusting students to win friendship; treating Jinshi sincerely; being kind and helping each other. If you want others to treat you, you must treat others first.